hot spots by | a black-owned bar, a subterranean rave lair, and the best meatball parms

hey hotties!

this week we’re back with another roundup of hot spots from our very own hot singles. might you be in the mood for some spicy rigatoni with a Possible Psychic? or is your fate to have a slice of pie with an Inquiring Mind? whatever (and whomstever) you’re looking for, we’ve got you covered below.

interested in any of these hot singles? respond to this email as usual with a message and a photo or two.

stay hot 🥵


carmenta’s | bushwick

“It’s a small shop, but they have the best meatball parms and spicy vodka rigatoni this side of Prospect Park.” -27M Possible Psychic

hot honey sundays | greenpoint

“Big dance party in the afternoon. Beautiful, happy people, great music, excellent Manhattan views, BYOB or get empanadas or juice in light bulbs—the best of New York summer vibes.” -29M Chitchat Champ

basquiat’s bottle | bed-stuy

“Vibes and cocktails are always good. There’s a gallery space in the basement, usually has live music, AND it’s Black-owned.” -28W Sweet Songstress

black flamingo | williamsburg

“Cool vegan date spot above. Subterranean rave lair below. Did I mention the millennial pastel color palette? Really a little something for everyone.” -28M Volunteer Firefighter

four & twenty blackbirds | gowanus

“Pie and coffee are very important to me, and this place serves some of the best of both. Get the salty honey slice for your salty hunnie.” -29W Inquiring Mind

🙋🏽‍♂️ if you’re interested in any of these hot singles, reply with a message and a photo :)

😎 if you’re looking for more places to go on dates, check out the list i curated on or last month’s edition of hot spots

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  3. a member of our team will share your message with the hot single, and they’ll take it from there

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  • we’ve got a variety of genders and sexualities on our list. most people are in their 20s and 30s. all are welcome. tell your friends 👯

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