29W Inquiring Mind Seeks Love That Is One Of A Kind

hey hotties!

this week’s second hot single is the first to the dance floor. her inquiring mind wants to know what makes you tick. wanna talk? electric slide into her DMs…or respond to this email :)

stay hot 🥵


p.s. this is our last hot single of july! we’re back to one single a week for august…as always, apply to be featured (or nominate a friend) here

what is your best personal quality?

I’m curious. This shows up at work in my creative field, where my interviewing skills come in handy. People really open up to me. When we’re on a date, I’ll ask you a lot of questions about your life, the things you’re passionate about, what makes you tick. My interest and engagement are genuine, and I’ll listen to your answers with open-mindedness and zero judgement. (Time = precious! Who has time for faking interest?) My endless curiosity also means I will try new things with wholehearted enthusiasm. Recent endeavors include: rock climbing, learning Italian, and knitting slippers.

what’s the last thing you wrote in your notes app?

I’m throwing a big birthday bash next month for my 30th. It’s going to be a full-on rooftop disco eleganza, so I hired my favorite DJ in the city and am requesting a mix of disco classics, deep cuts, genre-adjacent bops, and the occasional 90s sing along. The last thing I wrote in my notes app is a list of songs I want to request - nothing too obscure, but I didn’t want to forget them as they’re *just too groovy*. They include “Sound and Vision” by Bowie, “Love Hangover” by Diana Ross, and “Rasputin” by Boney M. What would you suggest I add?

😈 what’s your toxic trait?

I know I just went on and on about how open-minded I am but in all honesty I CAN get on my high horse and be self-righteous… and perhaps even too vocal about my convictions here and there (i.e. what we get wrong about Latino voters, or what you’re getting wrong about your homemade pie dough). HOWEVER… my curiosity for new information and perspectives means I’m always open to changing my mind. 

🥵 what makes you hot?

  • I’m a lot of fun to be around in a wide variety of contexts. At home, at a swimming hole in North Carolina, in a bar in Greece, at professional events, and of course, on dates

  • My kindness.

  • My queerness.

  • My body.

🔎 who are you looking for?

Looking for fun dates - maybe afterward we never meet again, or maybe a few more times, or maybe something more! Not looking for anyone gender-specific, but bonus points for queer folks as I love to bond over our shared experience. Extra bonus points if you’re a good dancer (I am not, but I love to boogie and I can fake a rhythm if I’m with someone who is).

🙋🏻 if you’re interested in this week’s hot single, respond to this email with a photo and a little bit about yourself :)

how does this work?

  1. you receive a weekly personal ad for a hot single

  2. if you’re interested, reply to this email or send a message to hi@hotsingles.nyc (have a friend who might be interested? forward it to them!)

  3. a member of our team will share your message with the hot single, and they’ll take it from there

who is hot singles for?

  • we’ve got a variety of genders and sexualities on our list. most people are in their 20s and 30s. all are welcome. tell your friends 👯

can i reach out to more than one hot single?

  • yes. you’re encouraged to respond to as many ads as you’d like.

how do i get featured?