hot spots by

first things first–i’d like to extend a hot welcome to all of you new subscribers 🥵

today we’re mixing up the format. in this special edition of hot spots by, alumni are back to share their favorite places to go on dates. as usual, you can reply to this email with a message and photo if you wanna meet them.

do you have date spots to share? reply and let me know for a chance to be featured in a future edition of hot spots.


prospect park dog beach | prospect park

“Get a chicken sandwich from Winner, a bottle of wine from anywhere, and watch dogs frolic in sewer-like water. A perfect Brooklyn date.” -Banter Enthusiast

greenwood cemetery | south slope

“Walk through Greenwood Cemetery at dusk, then grab a crispy boy at Sea Witch while staring at the giant fish tank at the bar.” -Tall Drink of Water

la superior | williamsburg

“What’s better than tacos and margaritas? Both of those are at this loosely organized block party with a DJ. Go to La Superior on Sunday between 5-9pm for people watching, eclectic music choice, drinks to go, and delicious tacos.” -Children’s Book Author

moma ps1 (niki de saint phalle exhibit) | long island city

“Free for NYC residents, the current Niki De Saint Phalle exhibit is both erotic and playful—perfect for a first date :p. Make sure to reserve tickets in advance.” -Data Privacy Hottie

louis valentino park | red hook

“Say hi to the Statue of Liberty and then get the best key lime pie you’ve ever had.” -Bad Teacher

🙋🏽‍♂️ if you’re interested in any of these hot singles, reply with a message and a photo :)

😎 if you’re looking for more hot spots, check out the list i curated on

how does this work?

  1. you receive a weekly personal ad for a hot single

  2. if you’re interested, reply to this email or send a message to (have a friend who might be interested? forward it to them!)

  3. a member of our team will share your message with the hot single, and they’ll take it from there

who is hot singles for?

  • we’ve got a variety of genders and sexualities on our list. most people are in their 20s and 30s. all are welcome. tell your friends 👯

can i reach out to more than one hot single?

  • yes. you’re encouraged to respond to as many ads as you’d like.

how do i get featured?