hey hotties! our chitchat champ may have had a rough (ruff) start to his first post-covid conversation with a stranger, but heās got a great attitude about it. as with all hot singles, he lives in new york, but people sometimes mistake him for a californian because of his open, relaxed vibe. speaking of vibes, this man knows how to set oneāand heās opening a bar to prove it.
stay hot š„µ
-randa
rose / bud / thorn
Rose: I just started going to therapy again! Iād forgotten how gorgeous it feels to have a professional massage your emotions.
Bud: Iām opening a bar in Greenpoint with a few friends. Currently rebuilding the interiors, hoping to open in October. The concept is inspired by ālistening bars,ā so if youād love a chill spot to have drinks and hear great music spun by local DJs, stay tuned!
Thorn: I received some militia gear in the mail, which I didnāt order. Like tactical satchels and holster type stuff. Either my identity was stolen by some MAGA people, or theyāre trying to recruit me. EEK.
whatās the best interaction youāve had with a stranger?
One day a bit after things started opening up again from covid quarantine, I was waiting in line at a beer spot. A woman queued up behind me and her dog started jumping all over me. She apologized and said they hadnāt seen anyone in months, I said itās totally fine, I get it, very sweet doggy.
I wanted to keep the conversation going, having not talked to a new person in months. I figured I should ask about her dog, but I know next to nothing about dogs (Iām a cat dad). I considered asking what breed of dog it was, but I didnāt know any breeds, so it felt like a dead end. It had now been a few moments and I needed to say something, so I said the next thing that came into my head, which was: āSo, does your dog like to eat meat?ā
We looked at each other, shared a moment of collectively going, āWhat the hell did you just say?ā and then the line moved. I was up next, I moved along, and we laughed it off. I promise Iām not this awkward all the time, but when I am, at least some good chuckles come from it.
š whatās your toxic trait?
I tend to assume the worstāmy skepticism and pessimism of people and outcomes can be pretty strong. Having said that, I do my best to not let myself judge books by their covers, and I delight in being proven wrong. An āunderpromise and overdeliverā kind of outlook.
š„µ what makes you hot?
I make it easy to be comfortable around me. When I first moved to NYC, people would tell me I had a ācali vibeā which I thought meant I looked super high or something???But actually, itās that since Iām not too concerned with facades or being impressive, people find they can relax, settle in, and be themselves around me.
š who are you looking for?
A woman with ambition, talent and passion out the wazoo, who is honest and communicates well, and who can cause me to die of laughter.
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