hey hotties!
earlier this week i posted some classifieds - i’d like to invite you all to share your missed connections, promote your events, air your anxieties, and submit anything else you might want to get out there:
today we’ve got a hot single whose notes app is overflowing with ideas. when she’s not running sci-fi simulations in her head, she’s developing new relationships and nurturing old ones. this sci-fi reader wants to get to know some playful people… inquire within to meet her.
stay hot 🥵
-randa
p.s. think you’re too picky on dating apps? i have some advice for ya.
what’s the last thing you wrote in your notes app?
I must confess that my use of the notes app is psychotic and I hope they never get hacked because it’s a mix of lists, journal entries and high thoughts. My most recent note just says “The secret is” and then a plot thread for this scifi novel idea I'm "writing" about brain-computer interfaces and augmented reality. I love science fiction, but not so much the actual science, more how it changes people’s behavior. I like the melodrama of it.
Writing is in quotes because I am not actually writing, I just think about it a lot. It’s kind of like playing Barbies, but in your mind.
rose / bud / thorn
Rose: My best friend, who rudely moved away, is in town for five days and I’m smothering her with love. Also, I got to eat Buffalo Wild Wings this week.
Bud: I’ve made two really important friendships with queer women of color my age. Besides having a lot of fun with them, it’s been validating and I’m learning a lot.
Thorn: The dog I got for my anxiety and loneliness is also anxious so she hates going outside and often refuses to go to the bathroom. This week, she left a little poop coal on my bed. We’re still fighting about it.
😈 what’s your toxic trait?
I’m easily talked into shenanigans. Or is it that I am extremely allergic to being earnest? Or maybe it’s my ability to spiral into calculating all possible outcomes out of sheer anxiety?
🥵 what makes you hot?
Also that I’m easily talked into shenanigans.
But seriously, I think I’m very self aware, which means I’m confident in who I am. I have a strong point of view, and I like people who are like that too. And that makes me really fun, because I don’t take myself seriously. My favorite thing is to bring fun and joy and affection to my people.
🔎 who are you looking for?
I’m looking for playful people of any gender - really I want to enjoy getting to know someone and spend fun quality time. I like people who are passionate, can be silly and who are affectionate (because I am).
🙋🏻 if you’re interested in this week’s hot single, respond to this email or send a message to hi@hotsingles.nyc with a photo and a little bit about yourself :)
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