today’s hot single is a triple water sign, and she’s got the nurturing mommy energy to prove it. as the founder of a successful food biz, she’d love to feed you. and as a “proud kinkster” she’d also love to poke you, whack you, and prod you, if you’re into that. could you go deep with her?
stay hot 🥵
p.s. the party is sold out! i’m working with the venue to see what we can do about capacity. no guarantees, but join the waitlist if you’re feelin' lucky 🍀
tell us about a subculture or community you’re part of and how you got involved
She’s a proud kinkster! I’m deeply passionate about sex positivity + kink / fetish as a lens into introspection, human connection, and play ⛓
3 years ago, I left a lovely (vanilla) relationship that allowed me to pause + reflect on what personal beliefs were given to me / inherited by society, and which were truly mine. Part of that journey as a Southeast Asian femme was stepping into + celebrating my sexuality on different levels - from proudly owning my baby bi status to discovering my feminine dominance through BDSM 🖤
That journey of self-discovery led me to find community (online through apps + offline at events) and hone my craft (yes, bish it’s a craft!) alongside professionals. I’m mad grateful for this new avenue of human connection + self-expression — plus, I’ve gotten deliciously good at the whack-y, poke-y, prod-y things 😈
what’s something you can’t live without?
Pork belly. As the founder of Asian food brand Omsom, I eat pork belly entirely too often - braised, fried, boiled, roasted. In fact, I want to get a Vietnamese pork belly dish I grew up on tattooed on my arm (sorry, Mom).
😈 what’s your toxic trait?
Hyper-independence and individualism as a trauma response 🙃 Tell me you’re the eldest daughter of immigrants without telling me you’re the eldest daughter of immigrants…
🥵 what makes you hot?
The mix of aggression and softness. I carry raw power (yes, this is hard-earned confidence!) and adamantly live my own truth out loud. But this triple water sign is also deeply tender, kind, and empathetic to those who I adore. If you make it past the hard exterior, I have mad mommy energy 🥺
🔎 who are you looking for?
I’m a bi without the binary - so just looking for kind, smart weirdos who have high EQ + a desire to make the world a more equitable place. Bonus points if you’re a submissive, thick-thighed himbo 🥵
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