27M Good Guesser Seeks Woman Who Asks Questions
hey hotties!
this week’s hot single and his TikTok friends were recently followed around town by new york magazine. when he isn’t gallivanting around lower manhattan, you might catch him working on himself in therapy. when he IS gallivanting around lower manhattan, he might just guess your perfect celebrity lookalike. this good guesser is looking for a woman who matches his curiosity… what questions do you have?
stay hot 🥵
-randa
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what is your go-to party trick?
I love asking people who their celebrity lookalikes are. It’s a great icebreaker and conversation starter–and I am pretty damn talented at coming up with them. It’s especially fun when they say they don’t have one. Recently, I was at Pulqueria in Chinatown and mentioned to a complete stranger (may have imbibed some adult bevs before this) that she looked like this actress Margarita Levieva and she goes “wait, she’s my cousin. No one ever knows who she is.”
make up your own fuck/marry/kill
My favorite game in the entire world. A good one as a barometer of what people prioritize in a partner. Let’s do personality traits: confident, funny, compassionate.
I’m marrying funny because laughter is the best drug in the world and necessary for everyday mental health. I don’t believe you can laugh “too much” (there are annoying laughs, yes, but thats low on my “ick” list I guess).
I’m fucking compassion because a lack of that means you are a sociopath and i’m not trying to date Aileen Wuornos (Google her).
I’m killing confidence. Being confident is VERY important but I think it’s something that most people work on daily and out of these three traits, if overdone, can be a big turn-off.
😈 what’s your toxic trait?
I think I've had a bit of an issue with too rapidly denying my feelings for someone and moving on too quickly, i.e. losing interest quickly when the whole goal of dating is to take the other person's flaws, internalize them and come to either a common ground or make sacrifices if there are emotions involved and you can see yourselves with them. I’m working on it in therapy lol.
🥵 what makes you hot?
I am really curious about life, humanity, and new experiences. Meeting new people is something I covet. Finding new things to do in NYC is a dopamine enhancer. I prioritize exploration and newness in my everyday life and dislike stagnation. I am also an ambitious person who enjoys my passions, hobbies and work and is always looking for different ways to explore them. Some of these include: NYC history, movies, going to new places, music (specifically hip-hop/rap/jazz/classic rock), travel and dive bars.
🔎 who are you looking for?
I am looking for a woman who shares a curiosity about life, is ambitious and is passionate about trying new things and expanding outside of her comfort zone when it comes to new experiences. If she’s got great improv/banter skills that’s a huge plus and an interest in pop culture, sports, music and/or the arts is a bonus!
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